Uncanny Philosophy
21Jun/100

Natural Born Leaders

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Some people are just made to lead. I say this with reference to the culminination of my favourite T.V show, Lost where Jack Shepherd (played by Matthew Fox) assumes leadership of a group of stranded passangers who mysteriously crash into an island. Now I have been watching Lost since it's first season and I have been following Jack quite closely along with the other castaways.  I have to say this : he is leadership material.

The question is, what is leadership material? Why is it that some people can just naturally assume a leadership position while others don't, even though they are exhorted and encouraged to do so by their peers. In my own career and personal life, I have seen this happen one to many times.  I have often assumed a natural leadership role in most situations where I have been involved. I don't mean to blow my trumpet here, it's just a mere observation I have been analyzing and pondering over the last couple of weeks during my training session.

Coming back to the question : What is leadership material? To answer that, and thanks to my religious following of Lost, I started looking back at my own life and poignantly observing the moments I have taken leadership in a natural manner (by which I mean not elected).

I guess the first thing people look out for is confidence. Am I comfortable and confident enough to let this person lead my group and be my leader? People naturally will feel comfortable with those who exude a sense of confidence, someone who you know is in control and is able to provide you that assurance.

Secondly, I would believe is attitude. Leaders are those who are able to conjure up enough energy and inspire their group to achieve something.  He or she has a vision and the individual is able to not only cast that vision, but to also share and articulate that vision to his or her peers.  I myself am often inspired by leaders who can openly share their plans with me and articulate it in a way that exudes confidence and assurance. 

Third I would believe would be that Leaders have a heart. Jack Shepherd was one who cared for his people, though not in an intimate motherly way, but in a way in which you knew you were in good hands and that you felt his protection over you. Good leaders are those who know how to protect their members because they have hold on to that responsibility that it's their duty to protect and care. Even as a leader myself, I often find myself looking out for my members more than myself, always ensuring they're involved (although sometimes I often get caught up with the planning I leave this task to my assistant to help me out with this area).

I believe some leaders are made and that leadership can be taught. But I also believe that leadership traits also are inherited and some people are naturally born with it.  These are the Natural Born Leaders. And is with such people, you would often find comfort and assurance in, doesn't matter whether you consciously agree to it, your subconscious mind for sure does. It's a human instinct in all of us.

20Jun/100

Hello WordPress Three-Point-O

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Yes, my blog is running version 3.0 now! Rock on baby!! The upgrade was a smooth operation, no hickups :) (of course I had to re-read the WordPress 3.0 upgrade page just to familiarize myself with the process!) but glad to see that there were no screw-ups in the process!

Anyway, in case you might be wondering what's so great about version 3.0 here's a little video for ya!

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19Jun/100

A Confession To Remember

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Lord Have Mercy

As I stood in in line today to wait for my turn for Confession, I asked the Holy Spirit to guide me through all the less-than-good things I had done over the course of the last couple of weeks. The irony is I don't usually do this as I often make a mental note of the sins I plan on confessing (no it's not a planned confession, it's a more...organised confession I guess :P ) . I don't know what made me ask the Holy Spirit this time around...

Anyway the whole "jolt" came when I was in the confessional booth. As I had finished declaring my sins and waiting for my retribution, the priest suddenly asked me "what had compelled you to come for confession today?"

WHAT??

Here I was hoping for a "sin no more, go your way" routine from the padre, and he actually turned to ask me that question. Man I was so not ready for it, and I didn't know what to honestly say. My mind hurriedly skimmed through whatever I knew about confession - give the priest the textbook answer

"I guess I don't really want to be seperated from God, I realise how important he is in my life and I really need Him.."  I chocked up a meek reply as I look squarely at the hardwood below me, with my hands clasped together hoping Padre would be satisfied with my answer.

"And when did you last feel God's love for you?" came back the reply.

By now I was done fighting with myself ; the urge to give textbook answers just disintergrated. I didn't like giving textbook answers anyway.

"Since my last confession Fr." I replied humbly with my head low, feeling ashamed of myself that in just a couple of weeks I had forgotten about our Lord's great love.

"Well then...." Padre continued. "I want you to remember that feeling you had, that love you had for God and I want you to hold on to it, and remember it and ask God to give you the grace to love Him again".

I swore the weight of my shoulders flew up as soon as he said those words! I don't know why but I felt so much as peace. As he gave me the absolution, I felt my chains being lifted. And more importantly, I slowly began feeling God's love in me.

I guess wonderful and miraculous things do happen when you ask the Holy Spirit for guidance! He gives you more than you can ask for! This is certainly a confession to remember!!

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